I often wonder if our zeal for expressing our
personal views can cause our communications to become misguided. As most of us will
acknowledge, there is a source of measurement higher than our personal
perceptions, even higher than the Constitution. That source really has only one
basic principle of measurement: LOVE. This is the God kind of love, i.e., not
our human perception of love. It is for God’s
love, or the lack of it, we all will be judged (See 1 Cor. 13).
Someone once said, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” This
is often the way we view our perceptions. David Brooks, New York Times
columnist and book author has said, and I paraphrase, “Our world view is not of
the world as it is, but as we are in it.” Our personal perceptions usually become
our version of reality, true or not. Although our intentions may be noble in
sharing our perceptions, shouldn’t we always be asking, “Do my perceptions, and
my communication of them, meet the standard of God’s kind of love?”
Over five decades ago, I was involved in the Dale Carnegie
Courses. These courses and the author’s books were founded on Biblical
principles, even originally containing frequent Scripture references. Remarkably,
I still remember a basic principle Dale Carnegie presented
to improve our human relations skills and enable us to, as he said, stop
worrying and start living. It was simply, DON’T CRITICIZE, CONDEMN OR COMPLAIN!
Applied in our daily living this could be stated, “Let our words and deeds always
be filled with God’s love.”
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